You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. Glad that its OVER!! And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. Hi Sharmeen, I am very sorry, unfortunately 12th house connections can sometimes reflect deceptions, it is the house of hidden things, secrets etc.. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. and my northnode conjuct on his jupiter and saturn on my 2nd house. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? It is also present in my relationship. I made our synastry. The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. ------------------Air woman. He does tell me how he feels about me. Ill blink and its 1am. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. Trish how did you get over it!?! Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. I would love to here anyone's feedback. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. JavaScript is disabled. Hi, Elsa!! The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. 12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. Never felt this way in my life. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. Im so sorry for the delay! What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. just keep on going in the OPPOSITE direction away from me as FAR AS YOU CAN!! For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? I leave, but I always come back after a while. Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. Its unbelievably painful. Combust! No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. Its been a year since we last saw each other and 5 months since we last spoke. I think what really happens is too much is shared to quickly, many secrets, and hidden parts of oneself and why things often get complicated. Venus in the Houses in Synastry. has Sun conjunct Saturn, they natrually have a hard time showing their affections and are very fatherly, 12th house gives you a very spiritual feeling almost like they could be your soulmate, it can be pretty intense ad consuming so if your not very spiritual/aware of yourself or in a good place in life, you might have a hard time feeling this energy or wanting to accept it, its different, its not so much lustful, its just friggin beautiful, you wanna make love to that person and cuddle them, i also have an empty 12th housei could love this energy so much possibly because aqua venuses that land there most of time trine my moon.i feel like if someones planets fall in 12th AND also aspect sun/moon/asc, youll be able to accept and recieve this awesome energy more. Hi, Heather. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire. These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. Especially natal charts and composite charts. Forum Venus in 8th house synastry Posts: 8 scorpiounique Topic starter March 7, 2022 9:36 am (@scorpiounique) Active Member Joined: 6 years ago His Pisces Venus falls into my Pisces 8th house. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. Unless he is catering to the spiritual side of you, its just not a good place for Mars to be in. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. In hindsight, I now believe that my 12th Houser is just that. OH! My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. Same here. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). Its completely one sided, I have no hope. Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. Conjunct Venus' are often found in long term relationships. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. Orange. The 12th House & Synastry When you have a 12th house connection in synastry and your natal planets fall in their 12th house, this can make you have difficulties expressing whatever that planet governs in the relationship (or vice versa if it's their natal planet falling in your 12th house). This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. His Pluto squares my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and NN. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. , Hey I would like to know more about the 12th house synastry I have my bfs Venus Jupiter and I think another place landing in my 12th house but my sun sign, Mercury, and Jupiter are all in the 12th house so idk if that has a lot to do with why its so easy to connect with him because I read and obsessed over a secret relationship but its way out in the open all over social media on both side and his family knows all about me and my family knows all about him Im just so confused like yea sometimes Im thinking hes not telling me all his feelings but I feel like I know him on a deep level and then I feel like I dont like he seems too good to be true it makes me automatically not want to trust him .. hmmm. This is the 1st time I've ever felt like I've met my other half.. my soulmate. I dream of him a lot. i have a guy who i'm so into him , he have his sun, venus, mercury and jupiter in gemini on my 12th house. we are creepy to them, but cant seem to let us go. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. But how can I be sure.. its the 12th house.. Hi everyone (waving)!! Double whammies in my opinion are like gateways of energy between the two people the energy is mutual, open, and receptive- going both ways. Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. What does it mean, and how does it affectthings? My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. Just a added general observation for everyone. The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. inscryption cards. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. When we are having a nightmare we have to face immense fears. I feel like I know this person really well but maybe this relationship is build on misunderstandings and confusion? Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. You can be very supportive and will enjoy much of your time alone together away from it all. I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. We finally realize wait, where are they, why are they not here if we feel so strongly about each other? I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. He also has this aspect with my daughter too. But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! Will this ever end!?!?? The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. It s killing me . Blessings come in MANY modes and appearances! but they just made it private. Someone may be misinterpreting something. and yourself? If he truely loves you, he will sooner or later find his way back to you. I love them unconditionally, to the point like they are flawless in my eyes. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). The Venus person embodies the ideal partner of the Juno person. I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. I loved his soul. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. You are probably this person's "type.". I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . I dont have other words for that. lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. Mars in 12th house plus all the unease Im feeling is scary and terrifying. I am the 12th house person. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheaven-if somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, I'm gone. Everything has a timing. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and . Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? Neptune can be downright painful, intentionally or not, he's the master illusionist and we can easily get tripped up in fantasy that is not really real at all. Yah, that 12th House synastry . It is because mars is a harsher planet? There are other harsh aspects between our charts, but overall the more connective and important synastry points overrule the bad. And that he doesn't know what is good for him. Some would be uncomfortable with someone seeping into their dreams or communicating with them in the ethereal realm. The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . A example of how the hidden fears thing of this house works is that we often will have a bad dream about something we are afraid of happening or suppressed anger, and and fear can bring us nightmares. How is aspected by other planets. which is terribly disturbing for anyone who doesnt want to face things. Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. Now, the twelfth house is a tricky house when it is activated in synastry. Hes cuddly and affectionate so that makes up for it. This house offers the opportunity to discover these things so we can let them go and live a life with less baggage and more happiness. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. i dont know what we were meant to learn from each other but i admire them both.with both of these people , we understood each other really well and there was a connection. But it's OK because we love being around each other. Or it can bring us confusion, misunderstandings, enhance our fears, and sometimes scare our darn pants off like when were having a nightmare. GOD-awful!! The 12th House!! It's true that when someone touches our soul in deep connection, they could teach us a lesson. It's very common to do with placements in this house. I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. Helo There, Last year I was @ a party, with my friends. The water faucet with no shut off valve, lol. At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. Neither did he. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. What I have found in common is that they both were very aggressive, affectionate and attached to me at the beginning, but once after, i state to feel I dont know them or what their true intentions are, and left me somehow insecure and confused. Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). Posts: 1873From: GeorgiaRegistered: May 2009. there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. Your email address will not be published. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. Our fake fears you know, the what if's? I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air.